11-11-11

Hubby is leaving tomorrow 😦

We spent most of today fighting…which has kinda become customary for us. Every time hubby goes away (which has happened twice before), we fight. We fight about stupid things. We fight about things that don’t really even care about. I think we fight just so that we won’t be sad about impending doom.  I am already struggling with that…becoming teary eyed at random intervals.

We are spending the day preparing to send off hubby away…doing laundry, updating hubby iphone ( he synchronizes his music library to my itunes, copying TV shows and movies from each other’s computers, sorting paper work etc. Being a good wife that I am, I have decided to make  him a beef curry to take with him.  I have to freeze it and then wrap it really well for him to take.

I don’t think I will see hubby in six months…though I am planning a secret mini surprise trip. Let’s see how that works out. I think I will probably miss hubby more this time around. We have never spent this much time together. Me being under-employed and he on vacation meant that we pretty much spent 24/7 together. We spent this much time together without any major issues. Phew! I can gladly say that we will be able to spend our time with relative easiness when we are all old and wrinkly.

~Bou

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4 responses to “11-11-11

  1. Hope you are doing ok. Feel the free time blogging. Will love to hear from you more!!!

  2. Hi Bou,

    I came across your comment on IHM’s blog, and hopped over. I’m glad I did. I’ve read all the posts, and although I have zero direct experience with marriage (not being married myself), I enjoyed reading them. You write with a clear, refreshing honesty and come across as a very genuine person. I wish more people around me displayed that honesty. 🙂

    Minor fights are a normal part of any long-term relationship, I suppose. As long as it doesn’t get too intense and personal, I wouldn’t worry.
    Just a few days ago, me and my girlfriend had a pitched battle over Real Estate being a better investment vehicle than equity. Neither of us is an economics major or anything but we both happen to have a strong interest in the subject. Sometimes, that backfires. 😀

    It’s more important to be compatible where it counts.

    Looking forward to more from you!
    Cheers.

    • Thanks for you reply Cynically Engineered! Well, I am only honest because I can be somewhat anonymous here 😛
      Yes! Minor fights are okay and we usually get over them pretty soon. But long distance sucks! We gotta do what we gotta do and not sacrifice our dreams. I look forward to reading your blog too!

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